Hope Over Fear

Five weeks after Mom died, I decided to take stock of my own health. I no longer had the distraction or excuse of having to “take care of Mom.” Since we had moved to Tacoma, I was determined to find a doctor I liked, closer to our new place. On the recommendation of a...

Prayers on the Wind

Ever wonder what to say or do when someone dies? I’ve struggled in the past to share the right sentiment; to know how to support a friend who was grieving. What should I say or do to help? When I lost a baby in utero many years ago, the most profound comfort...

The Residue Remains

res·i·due/ˈrezəˌd(y)o͞o/ : n a small amount of something that remains after the main part has gone or been taken or used. My siblings, cousins and aunt have flown home to their respective homes across the country. Devin has gone back to college after spending his...

And In The End…

“And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.” Beatles, Abby Road 1969 Mama in China 2005: Always waving On Thursday, March 14, 2019, Mama got her wings. I awoke with a start at 6 am that morning, knowing I needed to get back to her...

The Plus Sign

My Baby Boys 1998 My babies have become men. Today is Devin and Cody’s 21st birthday. They are away at college so in lieu of re-telling them their miracle birth story, I thought I would share it on my blog. Besides, they would likely roll their eyes at me and...